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Sunday, March 10, 2013

Libraries



Every Thursday night my mother took me to the local library.  It was never stated but intrinsically understood that I could check out as many books as I liked.  Most times, the stack was so tall I could barely see over the top while carrying to the car.  I wasn’t greedy or flippant about selecting that many books I simply loved books, the smell of them, the weight of them, the thrill of reading the first few pages as they grabbed your attention.

In winter it was dark by the time we left the library - as we stopped at each red light on the way home I would try and read by the overhead street lights - our house was no more than 7 minutes from the library but even then it seemed an eternity. Once home I immediately took my treasures up to my room, spread them on my bed and began my journeys - to King Arthur's time, to the 1940's, to present day adventures.
My mother was the first librarian at the Catholic grade school I attended. I loved helping her decorate the wall displays for the change of the seasons and holidays. Or create a special display highlighting a series of books.

When I was fourteen I made the difficult decision to live with my Dad and stepmother for a year away from my mom and three brothers. The school I attended was next to a historic building which housed the library. This squat, red-brick colonial building with mahogany wood floors and deep-set wide white alcove windows running from the floor to the ceiling was my refuge. Although we were not allowed to leave school during school hours I walked out the back door every day - lunch bag in one hand (cheese sandwich, Fritos, Little Debbie chocolate roll) and a book in the other. 

My reading space was on the 2nd floor, the furthest corner from prying eyes. I sat on the floor by the window, my back propped up against the wall to eat and read. For a painfully shy girl this library was my respite, an hour each day where I could escape to another world.

That was also the year, I chose to work in the school library as my extra credit activity, thriving on the sense of order when filing stacks of books away. When all was done I could sit out in the courtyard and read. Now-a-days I spend 5 days a week in the quiet of libraries or bookstores, writing or working on conservation projects.

Last weekend I went to New York City, staying at The Library Hotel on 41st Street and Madison - one block down from the NYC Library. Ahhhh, sheer heaven. At the entrance to the NYC library (in Astor Hall) inscribed on the wall is: "The city of New York has erected this building to be maintained forever as a free library for the use of the people" 
What greater gift could the wealthy have had endowed to any city? None.

Monday, February 11, 2013

The Art of Nesting - Creating your own Space




I am a nester - I love to create a feeling in a room through paint color, book shelves & books, fresh flowers, photographs and artwork. Last week while she was at school I painted my niece’s bedroom as a 16th birthday surprise. I boxed up the clutter, bought some curtains, pillows, a quilt, bulletin board and a large picture frame for a stunning photo she had taken for a school project. Using a can of light purple paint her room was transformed. Once my niece saw the room, we decided to do a couple more things, paint her cupboard doors with purple chalkboard paint and purchase a clock. Ta-da she now has a brand new room - a fresh start to her day and cozy refuge to retreat to at the end of her day. 

On a roll, the next day my other niece and I decided to do the same thing to her room - new wall paint (teal), chalkboard paint (black), white enamel hooks for the wall to hang her scarves on, picture frame for a beautiful photo she took for her photography class.

These are simple and inexpensive things you can easily do yourself to give as a gift for someone you love or for yourself when your life needs freshening up. 

Simple inexpensive ways to decorate a room:
- create a chalkboard  - on the wall or repaint an existing one
- fresh flowers
- forced bulbs (paperwhites AKA narcissus)
- books
- your own artwork or photos (framed)
- interesting book ends

Here are the cost breakdowns for one room:
$22 - One can of Glidden paint (Martha Stewart color)
$10 - Two paint brushes
$10 - One paint roller & pan
$14 - One quart of chalkboard paint
$10 - Several white enamel wall hooks
$20 - One set of curtains
$17 - Large photo frame with mat
$15 - Print of original photo
$4  -  Box of colored chalk
$122  TOTAL

Sunday, February 10, 2013

Afternoon Ritual



The elegance of a beautiful tea cup, the utility of a big mug, the sound of a whistling tea kettle - all a part of an afternoon ritual. I have in the last year made a point of making a pot of tea every afternoon around 3:00. It is as much about the process - putting the kettle on to boil, selecting the tea (Barnes & Noble brand of Earl Grey), steeping the tea in a pretty teapot, picking the perfect cup, pour, add honey and ready to sit for a few minutes. Unfortunately we seem less likely in this country (unlike our European counterparts) to take a moment, to embrace a comforting ritual.  I have recently bought kettles, teapots, tea cups for a couple of my older nieces - hopefully they will choose to incorporate into their lives a daily break to relax, reflect and just be thankful for all that we have in this life. .

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

A List of The Best Things in Life



  • Listening to National Public Radio - Fresh Air and On Being especially
  • Having a laugh out loud phone conversation with your oldest niece
  • Finding the perfect gift for someone
  • Reading a book that both disturbs and makes you think - Incendiary by Chris Cleave
  • Giving another niece a book you absolutely loved and she texts that she simply can’t put it down - Major Pettigrew's Last Stand by Helen Simonsen
  • Traveling by train
  • Fresh flowers in the house
  • Giving a children’s book to kids in and out of your family - A Sick Day for Amos McGee by Philip Stead
  • Watching a documentary about Sting and his musician friends making the haunting CD A Winters Tale
  • A bunch of kids sitting around playing board games
  • Having a cheeseburger and Guiness with my best friend in a neighborhood bar  
  • A cup of Earl Gray tea in the afternoon - Barnes & Noble has the best EG - in the blue tin for about $10
  • Discovering that your Great-grandfather x 11 was a Quaker and served time in an English jail before coming to America with William Penn - yes, that Willliam Penn. 
  • Discovering that a stone house your Great-grandfather x 11 built in Philadelphia still stands today - and the house has a name "Wynnestay" Try www.familysearch.org   - it’s free
  • Watching my grandparents dance to Ella or Benny or Glen
  • Growing paperwhites in the middle of winter - just to remind myself of Spring
  • Watching a BBC series: Single-handed; The Vicar of Dibley; Ballykissangel (1st season); The House of Elliot; Downton Abbey (of course); Foyle’s War; and Vera
  • Wrapping a present in plain brown paper with simple cotton ribbon 
  • Taking photos
  • Going to the library
  • Eating  a piece of warm homemade bread with salted butter
  • Imagining my grandmother sitting in a chair beside me, wearing peddle-pusher slacks with her standard white tennis socks and rebooks, her super slim, crazy beautiful legs crossed - leaning forward with a cup of coffee (or if evening a glass of beer) with a cig in hand, saying “ Now Sis” getting ready to impart something……..
  • Reading about intelligent thoughtful discussions and approaches to complicated problems in these crazy not so reasonable political times- Kennedy by Ted Sorenson
  • Crunching through the snow on a super sparkly crisp clear winter day
  • Catching a whiff of something that smells like the grilled cheese sandwiches they served at your Catholic school every Friday back in the day - yummy
  • Listening to and watching Lowell George on YouTube

Monday, January 14, 2013

Hawks



There is not day that goes by that I do not see a hawk somewhere in this urban landscape. Yes, it is winter and the bare bones of the leafless trees expose anything that moves between them more easily but it’s not that I think, I just see them no matter when, no matter where, no matter the season. 

Yesterday I saw a red-tailed hawk fly across the Interstate highway, landing on a light post flaring out her beautiful signature red tail to balance her abrupt change from soaring to full-on stop.This morning on my way to the library to do a bit of writing I saw a smaller hawk (sharp-shinned I think) chasing a frantic sparrow back and forth across another busy thoroughfare - the sparrow got away. Last Fall, during my ritual morning walk on my childhood street I saw two hawks fighting/chasing one another just above my head in a maple tree, some sort of territorial dispute I suppose. 

Where I currently live is a sort of charming New Englandy looking street  (truth be told it is the only charming thing about the whole neighborhood). The condos connect above the driveways to mimic  an old fashioned carriage house entrance. While standing with my dog who was snuffling about in the shrubbery, our resident hawk came gliding through the covered entryway at eye level only to smoothly sail through the other carriage-house drive directly across the street - WWII planes flying under bridges just for the kick of it comes to mind. 

I don’t recall seeing hawks in residential neighborhoods when I was a kid, I suppose they were there but for the life of me I don’t recall it. They clearly have adapted, a few weeks back  I even saw a juvenile red-tailed hawk that was coming down to feed off a not so recent roadkill, just tufts of fur remained. Key word here may be juvenile i.e. inexperienced, in explaining this odd behavior.  

After writing this blog and doing some other writing I took a break  to go get a bite to eat, yep, you guessed it - another hawk flew right in front of my car on the way to lunch………go figure.